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Twelve Pearls of Christmas: Guest Series and Giveaway: The Joy of Unexpected Circumstances

16Dec | 2010

posted by Paula

Welcome to the 12 Pearls of Christmas! Enjoy these Christmas “Pearls of Wisdom”! Please follow along through Christmas day as each post shares heartfelt stories of how God has touched a life during this most wonderful time of the year. AND BEST OF ALL … there’s also a giveaway! Fill out the quick form at the link located at the bottom of this post to be entered to win a PEARL NECKLACE, BRACELET AND EARRINGS!

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The Joy of Unexpected Circumstances
by Lori Kasbeer
The Christmas season is upon us again. Starbucks is selling their Christmas blend; stores are posting their holiday hours; and moms everywhere are making a list and checking it twice, planning for a special Christmas day. It has been our family’s tradition to spend Christmas with relatives.  Last year money was tight and we were unable to travel, this is not how we had planned to spend Christmas day but circumstances were beyond our control. Realizing my three boys–who are now teenagers–will not be under our roof for much longer, I wanted to have a special Christmas with just the five of us. Leading up to Christmas morning we all made mouth-watering, cinnamon cut-out cookies, spent time together sticking tape everywhere while trying to wrap presents, and enjoyed spending time together.  We did not have much money, but were having fun making memories.  When Christmas morning arrived and we sat around to open gifts my eyes welled up with overwhelming joy.  This mother was trying to absorb all the activity that was going on all around her: the smiles from each of my teenage boys, the sounds of laughter, and the smell of cinnamon rolls cooking in the oven.  If I could freeze a moment in time, this would be it.  I don’t know what the future holds for each of my boys, but that Christmas morning I wanted to soak it all in so I could recall this special day for years to come.  Despite struggling financially, unexpected circumstances turned into immense joy and a lifetime of memories. Mothers treasuring special moments is not something new.  Mary, mother of Jesus Christ, was one who tried to soak in everything that first Christmas morning.  Even after Christ’s birth she was still trying to absorb what the angel had said to her when he delivered the news that she was going to be the mother of the coming Savior.  She reflected on the time she had with her cousin Elizabeth while they were both pregnant.  Along with comprehending the unusual way her son came into this world. While very pregnant with child, Mary and Joseph traveled from Nazareth to Bethlehem to register Mary for the census.  Never did she image she would deliver her baby in a barn with a manger being the only thing to lay him down in.  These were not the circumstances she had envisioned.  Before she had time to catch her breath, suddenly all around her there was excitement when shepherds showed up reporting what they had seen and heard.  There were angels—a multitude of angels—who were singing and declaring the Savior was born and a bright star led them to her and Joseph. So much has happened in a short amount of time and Mary did not want to forget any of it.  Instead she stepped back and “treasured up all these things, pondering them in her heart.” (Luke 2:19) Mary did not exactly know what the plans were for her son, but she knew it was going to change the lives of everyone on earth.  She was preparing her heart to obey God concerning her son Jesus, without the full knowledge of what was going to come while at the same time quietly reflecting and capturing this one special moment in time. May this Christmas be filled with joy and a lifetime of memories, even if you find yourself in unexpected circumstances. Merry Christmas!

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About Lori: Lori Kasbeer lives with her husband Tadd and three teenage sons in Florida. She’s a contributor for Pearl Girls: Encountering Grit, Experiencing Grace and a Christian book reviewer. Please visit Lori’s Book Reviews for more info. You can also find Lori on Facebook and Twitter.

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A three strand pearl necklace will be given away on New Year’s Day. All you need to do to have a chance of winning is {FILL OUT THIS QUICK ENTRY FORM}. One entry per person, per day. The winner will be announced on the Pearl Girls Blog (http://margaretmcsweeney.blogspot.com/) on New Years Day! 12 Pearls of Christmas Series and contest sponsored by Pearl Girls®. For more information, please visit www.pearlgirls.info.

Filed Under: authors, book reviews, books, Christian women's books, giveaways, money, shopping, Starbucks

Kate Jacobs Interview, Contest and Blog Tour: Knit The Season

13Nov | 2010

posted by Paula

Thriftymommasbrainfood is so excited to offer an interview with Kate Jacobs and a review of her latest paperback release, the third story in her Friday Night Knitting Club series. Also there is a contest involved as well, so stay tuned to the end of the blog for information. Jacobs is a #1 New York Times Best-selling Author. Her latest novel, in paperback this week, is a lovely story of female friendships filled with strong and admirable female characters. It starts with Dakota Walker, pastry chef and daughter of the late Georgia, force of nature, returning home at Christmas time. Walker is surrounded and supported by her mother’s friends and, in this novel, she is forced to make important choices balancing friends and family. She returns home at the holidays with intentions of turning the somewhat neglected knitting shop into a knitting cafe. This is a lovely story perfect for the season and complete with reader’s guide is a natural choice for book clubs. I have enjoyed this series, particularly because of the great characters.

1. Can you tell readers a bit about your writing habits and what your day looks like when you are working on a novel?


KJ: My writing schedule varies and I’ve tried all sorts of different methods: Writing daily, writing every other day, always taking Fridays off, you name it. I think we all have our own rhythm and it’s unique to each writer. But I always come back to the same pattern: Writing daily (sometimes for long hours) for weeks and weeks and then taking several weeks to rest, read, and edit. I just repeat that cycle until I finish a
book, and have typically edited my draft multiple times before I turn it in. I tend to dress in very comfy clothes – I have special writing pajamas – and if I feel stuck, I grab my laptop and move locations around the house. I might write on the couch for a while and then return to the desk in my home office. My dog, Baxter, prefers when I stay put because my writing coincides with his daily nap. (In other words, he naps anytime I pull out the computer.)

2. For budding authors what advice do you have?


KJ: Sneak time to write regularly. It’s not a very glamorous secret, but it’s crucial. Sometimes I meet aspiring writers who confide that they have a half-finished novel in a drawer at home and ask me how they can complete it. My answer it always the same: Open the drawer! In all seriousness, writing is challenging. Instead of waiting for the moment of inspiration, simply sit down and get some sentences onto the page. Silence your inner critic with the promise to edit, edit, edit, and just march forward. And I am a huge procrastinator! Nothing looks as interesting as folding the laundry when a manuscript is due.

3. Who are some of your favourite authors?


KJ: I jump for joy when certain writers bring out new works: William Trevor, Alice Munro, and Kazuo Ishiguro. I love to read and they are each such masterful storytellers.

4. What motivates you to get out of bed every morning?


KJ: Breakfast! Hanging out with my husband and my dog. The chance to see what’s going to happen next in whatever story I’m writing. The knowledge that I’ll probably sneak in a nap later on. All the good stuff.

5. You write amazingly strong and three dimensional female characters. Can you tell readers of thriftymommasbrainfood and thriftymommastips if that is deliberate and if they are modelled after any females in your life?

KJ: Thanks so much! I want to write characters (particularly women) that are smart and strong – I never write stupid women though the characters often make questionable choices! For the most part, I don’t use real people as models as I find it more liberating to just follow my imagination. That said, I do sometimes weave in personality elements from people who are no longer in my life, and Gran (Dakota’s great-grandmother in Scotland) is a good example as she has much in common with my late grandmother, Nanny. That’s just a writer’s way of revisiting with a missed loved one.

Knit The Season is by Kate Jacobs, published through Penguin Group Canada, paperback edition out this week, $17.50 Canadian, $14 U.S.

This one gets $$$$ out of $$$$$.

Thanks very much for talking with me and for sharing with our readers.
This contest and blog tour is offering two signed copies of Knit The Season for two lucky readers.
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3.Leave me information on how to contact you if you win.
I will draw for the winners on Nov. 26th with random.org. Thanks and good luck!

Filed Under: book reviews, books, characters, interview, Kate Jacobs, Knit The Season

Angelina: An Unauthorized Biography

29Sep | 2010

posted by Paula

One of the most powerful actresses of our generation, Oscar-winner Angelina Jolie is an adoptive parent, UN ambassador and partner to one of Hollywood’s biggest heartthrobs. She is a celebrated and intense actress, famous daughter of Oscar winner Jon Voight and one-time model Marcheline Bertrand. Named the most powerful celebrity in the world, Angelina unseated Oprah Winfrey on the Forbes 2009 Celebrity 100 list. Angelina: An Unauthorized Biography is a page-turner, at once titillating, scandalous and informative. The biography dives right into Angelina’s famous father’s early career. Jon Voight’s early experience in theatre, his friendship with Dustin Hoffman and golden boy status are well detailed. The Voight portion of the book is quite compelling. Readers could be forgiven if at first they began to feel that the biography read as a tale of the father, not the daughter. However there is meat here. Jolie herself cannot be understood without reflecting on the reasons for the volatile relationship with her father and the strange parenting style of her mother. Morton clearly notes, in the beginning of the biography, how Bertrand was initially unable to bond with the infant daughter she gave birth to right at the same time her famous husband began an affair with Stacey Pickren. There is much speculation and comment on the psychological impact this early abandonment may have had on Jolie. The musings and comments from various doctors and psychologists, within the biography, make sense and seem supported by the behaviour of Jolie throughout life. However, the comments are somewhat diminished by the simple fact that none of these doctors or psychologists ever treated Jolie in person. Their comments are made as assumed insights and are speculative then at best. Both Angelina and her brother James Haven sadly were both made to suffer in the protracted angry divorce between her mother and father. That much is fact. Not exactly an overnight success, Angelina started as a model _ at one time thought to be the next Cindy Crawford _ and slowly gained notoriety. Jolie did time dancing in music videos and was often passed over for roles partly because of her strong looks and personality. She didn’t fit the girl next door or girlfriend roles being offered. Eventually she landed roles in movies like Foxfire and Hackers, not really notable works, but on Hackers she met and later married her first husband British actor Jonny Lee Miller. A turning point came when she accepted the role of a doomed supermodel in Gia. Then a Golden Globe nomination came for George Wallace and the star was in demand. As Jolie’s acting reputation grew, so did her political motivation. She is now a highly respected UN ambassador. Much of this has been written about before, however, as has the highly publicized breakup between Brad Pitt and his former wife Jennifer Aniston. When they met on set, Pitt and Angelina Jolie, cast as husband and wife in Mr. and Mrs. Smith, had immediate chemistry. Jolie had already adopted one child Maddox from Cambodia, a spot she was introduced to through filming Lara Croft. She would soon adopt more. Now parents to six children, some biological and others from various international adoptions, the Jolie-Pitts are as well known for their “rainbow family” as they are for their acting roles. What I found to be even more interesting here than the details of drug use and odd sexual behaviour of Jolie’s younger years, were the questionable details of these various international adoptions. While on one hand celebrity adoptions are celebrated for raising the profile of adoption as a viable and beautiful way to make a family, there are numerous details here in this biography of criminal behaviour, missing information, biological parents turning up alive when once thought to be dead, that really cast a harsh light on international adoption. This is the part of the book that is frankly scandalous. On more than one occasion it is revealed that parents of the children adopted by Jolie turned out to be alive, whereas they were assumed dead. In the case of Jolie’s first adoption, when still married to Billy Bob Thornton, the adoption agent Lauryn Galindo herself fell under suspicion of trafficking. During a two year probe it was alleged that she bought children for American families. She was later convicted and served two years in a federal penitentiary for money laundering and conspiracy to commit visa fraud. After Jolie met like-minded actor Brad Pitt, they searched the world for her next child. In Ethiopia they would find a little girl Zahara, whose mother was reported to have died from Aids. In 2005 they adopted her, although Angelina was on paper the adoptive parent, because the country wouldn’t allow adoptions by unmarried couples. A short time after the child was settled in her new home the biological mother surfaced alive. Andrew Morton is one of the world’s most well known celebrity biographers. He has previously written Diana: Her True Story, revealing the inner world of Princess Diana. Morton lives in London and has also written Monica’s Story and Tom Cruise.

Angelina: by Andrew Morton. An Unauthorized Biography,
St. Martin’s Press, New York, August 2010, $26.99 $31.99 Canadian, 328 pages
thriftymommastips rating $$$1/2 out of $$$$$

Filed Under: adoption, andrew morton, angelina jolie, book reviews, books, international adoption, money, movie stars, Tom Cruise, UN

A Place For Delta

1Jun | 2010

posted by Paula

A Place For Delta is an amazing, educational adventure story for youth aged 9 to 12 set against an Alaskan backdrop. This young adult fiction tale is one of the best stories we’ve read here in a very long time. For a couple of weeks I’ve been reading this book out loud to my daughters, aged 8 and 6, and they have been captivated from start to finish. And you know that thing where your brain wanders sometimes to adult stuff while reading kids books out loud, well none of that happened to my brain with this story. In fact I might even be a bit smarter from reading it. Delta is a baby polar bear and this is the story of the people who find her and help nurture her, in the process, also helping to solve the crime of who shot the bear cub’s mother. It is insightful and educational. It is relevant, at times dealing with topics such as global warming, Alaskan oil drilling and environmental threats to animals such as polar bears. A Place For Delta is well written, and contains just the right amount of suspense to drive the plot forward. The story begins in Georgia many years prior, when a young brother,  Ben, his sister Kate and their mother, Lisi, move to an old farmhouse with many acres of land. We are told Lisi has taken a job at a college nearby and her children are explorers venturing out onto their new property tracking footprints and scat, in search of wildlife. They are pioneering in spirit, both animal and nature-lovers. As young children, Ben and Kate are daring. They have several close calls with bears and snakes. But these are smart savvy kids, without need of rescuers. Fast forward, many years later and the children are grown. Ben has a son named Joseph. Kate is employed at a research station in Alaska when news of an orphaned polar bear comes to light. She is busy with research, but also needing to help hand-feed and socialize a polar bear and she quickly asks her nephew Joseph, 11, to come to Alaska to help raise the bear. What follows is an amazing cultural adventure and a mystery as well. Joseph becomes friends with Ada, a young Eskimo girl, and together the two spy on locals and tourists to uncover the truth. At times, while reading this, I felt it to be the same kind of timeless classic like Charlotte’s Web that can be read over and over, treasured and passed down through families. A good book, read together with children, can cement bonds, raises important issues, help encourage character development and nurture creativity. A Place For Delta was a joy to share and I suspect that’s how my children felt to when it ended and they asked to read it all over again. I will treasure A Place For Delta, a savvy intelligent book that encourages children to be smart and resourceful while taking ownership of the world around them. This story is wholesome and contains many biology and geography lessons. Walker was a professor of English at the University of New Orleans, and is an advocate for civil rights and wilderness. She makes Alaska fascinating. She is the author of Reading The Environment and Living on Wilderness Time: 200 Days Alone in America’s Wild Places. She lives with her husband Jerome in Atlanta and spends summers in Alaska. Richard Walker is a nurse and artist. His illustrations are quite lovely and timeless. The jacket blurb for Delta indicates it is the first of a series of books for children. We will wait anxiously for the second installment in the series.
Melissa Walker, A Place For Delta, illustrated by Richard Walker, $16.95 US, Whale Tale Press
released today June 1, 2010. Thriftymommastips rating $$$$$ out of $$$$$. Loved it. I don’t think I’ve ever given perfect $$$$$’s before. My eldest has told every child at her school about this amazing new book called A Place For Delta and my youngest has asked all of her teachers if they’ve ever read it. One night she stated: “I would like 100 copies of that book.”

Thriftymommastips is not paid to review books, but receives a free copy to read from the publisher.

Filed Under: animals, book reviews, Melissa Walker, oil companies, polar bears, youth

Melvin The Magnificent Molar

12May | 2010

posted by Paula

Melvin the Magnificent Molar is a cute and functional children’s book I received last week from TwitterMoms. My children have given it a resounding two thumbs up and loved the cute story about a tooth named Melvin. “Mommy, I am brushing my Melvin,” they holler every morning now. See Melvin is a molar and as such he is often covered in a sleep scummies and gook and generally neglected because he is at the back of the mouth and just gets missed. The sweet little paperback picture book about hygiene was written by Julia Cook and Laura Jana, MD. The illustrations are lovely by Allison Valentine. The story is full of cute rhymes and sing song tunes that get children involved in the book. “Brush us and floss us and help us to shine so we can be ready and look mighty fine.” Cook and Jana use Melvin to take a bit of the mystery out of dentists and the tooth fairy and baby teeth.

Melvin the Molar is published by the National Centre For Youth Issues.
For a copy contact http://www.ncyi.org/
Tennessee, USA, 2010
thriftymommastips rating $$$$ out of $$$$$.
thriftymomma does not get paid to review books instead she receives a free copy to read

Filed Under: book reviews, books, children, Melvin, molars, teeth, tooth fairy, Twittermoms

Friendship For Grownups: a giveaway

10May | 2010

posted by Paula

Many will recall Facts of Life star Lisa Whelchel from the truly popular hit show of the 80s. They might have even watched the cast reunion show, but lesser known to many is the fact that she is a Christian author with many publications to her credit. I was asked to review Friendship For Grownups: What I Missed and Learned Along The Way and was pleasantly surprised by the writing and the author herself . Whelchel speaks candidly of being a child star, moving from her native Texas at the age of 12 to Hollywood where she grew up fast and went on to superstardom as Blair in The Facts of Life. Her first appearance on The New Mickey Mouse Club launched her early childhood career, a career that actually began as an outlet for an overly shy bookish, introverted, child. Not so surprisingly Whelchel missed some key developmental stages in her life as a result of diving headlong into acting so early. This she examines in a calm and matter of fact way to indicate why she headed down this path that led her to write this book. It is a tone that remains constant throughout the book, never maudlin or self-pitying, just a simple fact of her life. This is an admirable quality. When Whelchel was young, she moved to Hollywood and life was essentially suspended while she acted. When The Facts of Life ended, Whelchel’s career came to a halt. Years later, as a homeschooling mother and a pastor’s wife, she realized she had few true friends as a grownup, a glossy superficial veneer preventing her from attaching too deeply to anyone. This book is a really insightful look at the process of working through that veneer allowing vulnerability and growth into your life. Whelchel smartly touches on several key issues with women’s friendships that often prevent women from being genuine in friendships. This is an enjoyable and telling portrait of life in Hollywood from a young age and how Whelchel grew up, learning from her mistakes. There are some truly delicious bits here that all women will relate to, including the gossipy nature of women’s friendships that keep us from working in a truly supportive and collaborative way with each other. She notes her longtime friendship with Nancy McKeon, who played Joe on the hit show, as one of her greatest takeaways from her time acting. She also delves into some of the darker sides of fame that she personally experienced. For instance at an age when puberty began to make the child star gain weight, she was forced daily to endure the humiliation of a weigh in prior to each day of shooting. Others might call that abuse, but Whelchel simply refers to it as something she felt at the time that she deserved. With therapy and the help of friends, she comes to realize how all of these prior experiences led her to create a wall around her that prevented her from being in a true friendship. Friendship For Grownups is a nice read and a smart look at vulnerabilities in female friendships.

Friendship For Grownups, Lisa Whelchel
Thomas Nelson publsihers, 2010, USA, $21.99 US.
Thriftymommas rating $$$$ out of a possible $$$$$$ or 4 out of 5.
Insightful and heartfelt.

Thriftymommastips does not get paid to review books, but receives a free copy of the book from the publisher.

To enter this giveaway you need to do three things:
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Good Luck. I will draw for this with the help of random.org on May 28th.

Filed Under: book reviews, books, Christian women's books, Facts of ife, food, Lisa Whelchel, Thomas Nelson, thriftymommastips, TV show, weight

Admit One: My Life in Film

9Mar | 2010

posted by Paula

Admit One: My Life in Film by Emmett James is one of the funniest, easiest, reads I’ve been sent in a long time. I wasn’t prepared for how witty this book is and after reading the cover blurb assumed Admit One would be a sad memoir of a poor youth raised in Croydon, South London. Memoir as a genre can be self indulgent and frankly I have read far too many that fall into the let’s blame my parents for every sad thing that ever happened to me category. This story however is not one of those point the finger maudlin tales. From start to finish this is a catchy, witty saga of a young lad who seeks solace at the movies and in fact tells his life story as it relates to major movies that came out during specific times of his life. It is a simple device _ this echoing of life’s stories through other media, such as film, books, art. And yet when used effectively it is a lovely way to frame a story and it can propel plot along nicely. Admit One starts with an open letter prologue to Steven Seagal which made me chuckle. James begins to list the top 10 films of his youth and then goes on to note that readers will notice no Steven Seagal movies on the list, with good reason. I enjoyed everything about this book. Its deadpan humour was a perfect pick me up for this reader during a long dreary winter in Canada. There’s even an adoption subtheme that made me like the book even more as it is revealed that James’ mother was adopted and then goes on later in life to adopt a pair of girls. As some of my readers know I am an adoption advocate, frequent speaker and writer about adoption. Chapter One starts with The Disney version of Jungle Book 1967 and it is clear that a young boy’s reverence for film will feed his imagination and shape his destiny early on. The author’s musings on films and directors/animators tweaked a nostalgia in me that was unexpected and a welcome reminder of days gone by and also major films  and television shows/ rituals that shaped my own childhood. In my own family as a youngster we would gather around the TV on Sunday nights without fail to watch Walt Disney’s weekly family movie. James knows these are the things that bind us, often strangely even more than life’s big events, the small weekly rituals with emotional resonance long preserved into tiny gems hidden within longterm memory. Remarkably this memoir ends up carrying us to Hollywood and the older James stumbles through a series of humourous missteps as an extra, eventually landing himself a part on the blockbuster hit Titanic. I thoroughly enjoyed this one as a light, entertaining read.

Admit One: My Life in Film, by Emmett James, Fizzypop Productions, 2010. 2nd edition. $19.95 hardcover. (A very good price)

The first edition was published in 2007, by Wheatmark Books in Arizona
thriftymommastips rating $$$$ out of $$$$$
Thriftymomma was no compensated for this review but instead received a free copy of the book for review.

Filed Under: book reviews, Jungle Book, memoirs, Walt Disney

The Language of Love and Respect or Google Map Theory

18Feb | 2010

posted by Paula

The Language of Love and Respect promises better communication with your mate and falls under the spiritual growth genre of self help books. It is a book I would not normally read as I frankly find the whole self help genre to be completely overdone and overhyped. I believe in living my life daily while trying to be fully present for experiences as they present themselves. Frankly I have always been baffled by people who seek spiritual awareness in a book. So the self help genre for me is a self indulgent and odd little phenomenon. The Language of Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs has not changed my view of this type of book. To be clear there were probably a few good pointers in this book, but most of them seemed as if they’d already been written about somewhere else. The premise of this language is that men communicate essentially in blue while women communicate in pink. Women see things with pink sunglasses and men with blue; women hear things with pink hearing aids and men with blue. While the references to pink and blue are clearly old fashioned and stereotypical, the theory has a bit of merit. One need only drive on a roadtrip with a man anywhere to realize this theory. I explain it in terms of Google Maps. When I drive and navigate towards a destination I print out Google turn by turn word directions. It helps me to know when and where to turn. My husband, on the other hand, proved my theory this summer on a road trip to Ohio. He was stunned I hadn’t printed out the actual map. Pink glasses. Blue glasses. I call it google map theory. The entire philosophy present in The Language is a bit too reminiscent of Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus. The language in this book also threw me as a reviewer. The author also describes what he calls the “Crazy Cycle” as the space in a communication exchange where you are trapped and communicating at cross purposes. The grown up verison of “No I didn’t.” “Yes, you did.” In his defence he does give several examples of how to get off the cycle or avoid the cycle. He cites this as an example: on an occasion when his wife was planning to go help a friend with a new baby, she previously noted she would be going to him, but when it came closer to the event, she told him again and the author realizes he didn’t remember her saying anything about the new baby. He suggests that as it is typically a male trait to not listen carefully enough, that it was his fault. Instead of stating: “You did not tell me that.” the author paused and realized he was at fault. Instead the statement to his wife was something like this: “I am sorry, I don’t recall hearing you tell me that you were going. I apologize I must not have been listening.” If men read this type of book then there may be a few lessons learned from these types of examples. Still I wish he’d thought this out with more sensitivity to terminology. The term “Crazy Cycle” is somewhat offensive. Eggerichs is a P.H.D. and a Pastor who runs marriage clinics and counselling groups. He lives in East Lansing, Michigan. There are a few worthwhile communication lessons here, but this sadly is not a book I would go out of my way to buy as it has been done before, and I think also better, by other authors.
The Language of Love and Respect gets a $$ out of $$$$$
Thomas Nelson Publishers, $14.99 U.S. 2007 originally published as Cracking The Communication Code. (sadly a better title the first time around.)

Thriftymomma was not compensated in any way for this review but received a free copy of the book from the publisher.

Filed Under: Bible, book reviews, communication, self-help books, The Language of Love and Respect

Speak!

14Jan | 2010

posted by Paula

It is quite unusual for me to choose a young adult book to read or review for that matter. But something about this one tweaked my interest when shopping at Chapters/Indigo recently and as a result it has changed my whole reading perspective. Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson came recommended by a staffer named Emily as you can see here. It also has garnered more awards than most authors accumulate in a lifetime of writing volumes of novels. This young adult book is one of the most compelling character studies I have seen since reading The Lovely Bones, by Alice Sebold. (a new movie currently in theatres based on the bestseller. In Speak, the narrator is a young girl starting high school. Melinda Sordino, selectively mute, has stopped communicating in any meaningful way since she broke up a summer party by calling the cops. All of her friends hate her since she ruined the summer’s biggest social event. While most readers will probably be able to guess at the reasons behind the phone call, the author doesn’t reveal the details until a crucial point in the book. Melinda is traumatized, depressed and anxious. She slowly reveals details of why and how she came to be non responsive and disenfranchised from her parents and her former friends. Halse Anderson has done a remarkable job recreating the truly awful awkwardness of early grade nine and the strange but real high school environment. A mother of teenagers at the time she wrote this novel, she captures details with a wonderful mix of humour and pain, always realistically conveying atmosphere, setting and dialogue. Melinda is failing or flailing in most of her subjects. She is depressive to everyone except her parents, who do not stop working or admonishing her poor academic performance long enough to figure out what truly might be happening with their daughter. This is a sad, brave, book because it deals with mental illness and violence. But Speak is also ultimately a hopeful story that chooses to pull back the curtain that shields people from seeing mental illness as something that affects young people. Melinda’s high school is a place of refuge and terror, an escape and a prison. “The art room is one of the places I feel safe. I hum and don’t worry about looking stupid.” This is a book I will keep for my daughters to read when they are old enough to read it (I would estimate 12 and up). Speak conveys a powerful message about voice and truth, safety and the complex world of contemporary teenagers. It is precise and unflinching and it has opened my eyes to another genre of novel and the fact that there are some truly amazing authors writing young adult fiction.

thriftymommastips review $$$$$ our of $$$$$.
Speak, by Laurie Halse Anderson is published by Penguin USA, 1999.
198 pages. $14 Canadian and $10 USA.

Filed Under: Amazon, authors, book reviews, books, good reads, Indigo, Laurie Halse Anderson, mental illness, novelists, rape, reading, Speak, teenagers, violence, young adult books

Rainbow Magic Fairy Books and a giveaway

30Nov | 2009

posted by Paula

 We discovered the Rainbow Magic Fairy series a few years ago when my oldest daughter was small and very into fairies. This year my youngest child Ainsley, now five, has picked them up again and so we’ve been reading through the numerous children’s mystery books one more time. This, at right, is a picture of Harriet the Hamster Fairy, one of our favourites, that I am giving away to one lucky reader  Dec. 1st. I received the book for free with purchase of several others recently and want to pass it on to you. The series, by Daisy Meadows, started with the weather fairies and moved on from there to dance and party fairies, colour fairies, jewel fairies, day of the week fairies, pet fairies etcetera. There is no end to the possibilities. This lovely little series starts with two girls who are friends Kirsty and Rachel and they communicate with fairies who help them solve mysteries when ill mannered goblins, usually under the control of Jack Frost, steal things that control the weather or control the pets in the city. These are simple chapter books, full of clues and pictures, good transitional books for solid little readers wanting to graduate from picture books to something a bit more challenging. The Scholastic series are available on line from Amazon and Chaqpters/Indigo. Usually they run about $4.99 US or $5.99 Canadian. To win this my latest giveaway, a book for a child between the ages of four and 10 at most, follow me on twitter

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thanks and good luck. Contest will be drawn by Random.org on Dec. 1st.

Filed Under: Amazon, book reviews, chapter books, children, mysteries, pets, rainbow magic fairies, scholastic, weather

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